Three Strikes You're Out (Part 3 of 4)

If she makes excuses to not be physical with you, you might think that she’s just a good girl. Some women will say that they don’t want to be physical with you so they can be sure that you’re not with them just for the sex when in fact you probably didn’t sleep with this girl yet anyway. In reality, you would be shocked to discover that after you take her home--probably after you paid for your night on the town together--she goes to another guy’s house or has some dude come over to her house for sex. That lucky guy is the one that knows better than to spend a fortune on a date to get laid. Instead, he goes out with his friends and if he doesn’t get lucky he arranges (probably during your date) a booty call with your date. Or, better yet, he already made plans to hook-up with your date; but, if he has the chance to hook-up with another girl he cancels on your date. So, this may be a paradigm shift for you to accept that your date knows in advance of your night our with her that you’re going to take her to a nice dinner, get her drunk, be her designated driver, and that she’s not going to sleep with you because she has plans to party with another guy after your date. In view of this, don’t tolerate girls who text message during your date or take an inordinate amount of time in the bathroom because they are likely to be making plans for their midnight bedroom antics with a guy other than you. There have been plenty of times that I spoke to an ex-girlfriend on a Friday or Saturday afternoon and had her tell me that she had a date that night. I’d tell her to call or text me if her date turns-out to be a drip. So, I’d inevitably end-up with her coming over for a booty call after her date. This is a two-way street that you can use to your advantage. If you’re on a date make every effort to get her home early. If bachelorette number one is not topless within an hour you still have a chance of hooking-up with bachelorette number two.

To be continued.